friendZ + GuyZ

Sometimes when u have a lot of good/close bunch of girl mates around u.. u become so close and tight, that u do not want to hurt them in anyway.. but what can get in the way of a very good friendship?

For example, (a true story) Michelle* that I know, likes a Andrew*, and its obvious that the Andrew likes her too. but the problem is, Michelle's friend, Yuri*, is interested in Andrew as well. Michelle and Yuri are good friends, they talk heaps and hang out a lot at school. One day, Yuri tells Michelle that she is interested in Andrew, Michelle was totally shocked in side, but did not want to show it as she and Andrew were not an official couple yet. Michelle just nodded and didn't show any signs of jealousy or surprise or anything. She just nodded. But what she didn't know was that Yuri would get jealous if Michelle and Andrew got together.

Later on, Michelle kept thinking to herself, 'Should I get with Andrew? or not? If I did get together with Andrew... would it ruin me and Yuri's friendship?' Michelle confronted me, she asked me s

olutions to this, an all I could tell her, was to go for Andrew. I mean, why not? it's obvious that Andrew likes Michelle from the start, and Yuri obviously knew that. And that is WHY this other certain event happened.

On May 1st, it was Yuri's friends' birthday party. Yuri

was organizing it. they were at school. Yuri asked her friend, Anna*, if she wanted wanted to come (in other words, she invited

Anna) and Michelle was RIGHT NEXT TO Anna, and guess what? Yuri did NOT even bother asking Michelle to the party. Yuri had invited everyone in the group -but Michelle.

Not that Michelle cared, seeing as it was a friday, because she had to work that night. But she (Michelle) was just a bit upset that her 'friend' didn't even bother inviting her. How Bitchy is that???

And so now, Michelle is worrying whether she should go out with Andrew or not, but I told her that she should just go out with him.

Michelle seriously does not want to ruin this friendship with Yuri, coz of a guy... But what can she do??

Why can't Yuri understand that, even though she got close to Andrew, that he would have no feelings for her?? Can she not understand that, just coz of a guy, she could stand ruining a good friendship??

Yuri hasn't talked to Michelle as much as she used to before the holidays started..

I personally find that totally ridiculous! S

ometimes, I don;t understand how some people have the greatest friends around them, but coz of a guy, they tend to ruin a good friendship...!

What do u think?

Is Yuri just being a jealous friend and c

an't seem to be happy for her friend

or

that Michelle (and I) are being really inconsiderate of Yuri's feelings for Andrew??

To Be Cont....(?)

*names have been changed