Tell me if I'm wrong.
Your relationship is a long-distance one, you guys hardly ever get to chat whether it's online, voice-calling or texting because both of you are either working or busy with something else (e.g. Uni) so neither of you have that time. Although you text during the day whenever you guys can. When it's night time, you guys talk on the phone for a decent amount of time to catch up on each others days and all but no. Your gf/bf decides to be all sleepy and tired when you have been in the same situation or that they have slept earlier and longer than you and yet they are still tired and insists on sleeping and yawns at about 5x per 10mins.
Yes, being sleepy and tired is fine. I accept that. But NOT listening to what they have to say to you is plain rude and annoying! Yes I get that you are tired and sleepy but at least listen to what I say!!! If you wanted to sleep, then you shouldn't of have called!!!
What is the freakin' point in calling when you don't intend to talk longer than freakin' 10mins?? And after that you start your yawning sessions and practically do not even bother with what the other person says??
If that's the case, I prefer my boyfriend to not call me at night if he is "sleepy and tired" or if he is planning on sleeping soon. The convo would just be pointless. It would be better if we just stayed chatting via texting that voice-calling.
There are guys who are "gamers" and guys who are "sleepers". They will all eventually lose their girlfriend's cos they either game too much or sleep too much.
The point in having a girlfriend is to spend time with them and spoil them with love and care. Not freakin' sleep or game!!! If you want to do that, then you might as well be single. Cos there'll be no one that needs your care and love or you "precious" gaming or sleeping time to be wasted on them.
Thursday, May 24, 2012
Saturday, May 19, 2012
Feeling the Distance
I'm starting to feel the distance in my long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. I don't know what it is, but I feel that we're not as close as we use to be. Maybe it's cos whenever he's working, so am I. Or when he's working, I'm not vice versa. As a result, we can't text each other or leave each other messages cos either one of us are busy or both are busy.
Sometimes, it feels like I'm the one with no like, spamming him with texts and he never really spams me... Like the most texts that he's ever sent/spammed me with was like 10 probably. Whenever we talk on the phone at night, he's always too tired or sleepy to talk cos he's got work early in the morning the next day, so we eventually only talk for a short time. When we talk, it's pretty much full of nothing..... I don't even know what we talk about...
It feels so meaningless.
I still love him heaps. But this distance between us is in a way causing some fights and arguments which isn't what I want... But it just happens.... I don't know whether it's just me or what. Maybe it's cos of the lack of communication this month, but I don't know....
At times I wonder to myself whether this relationship will last if it continues to be like this. I want it to continue but it feels like we hardly talk to each other and it's not longer that fun. I wonder to myself whether this whole thing has become a daily routine. Like, wake up, text "good morning" etc and continue texting and everything else we do.
I feel kinda sad whenever I think about this. But what can I do? I can't tell him. I don't want to have another heart-to-heart talk with him. I feel like I'm the crazy girlfriend who over thinks too much and has so many problems? :/
I can feel that he feels the same way about me, but sometimes, when he does text me or call me, the way he speaks to me, isn't the same as we use to talk. It's more simple and blah. When I look back at the texts that he's sent me from way back, like in 2011 (at this time, May), his texts are so much sweeter and draws me closer to him, and still makes me smile just re-reading them again.
There is a huge difference between last year and this year.......... And it's only been 21 months since we've been together. Not even 2 years yet. I want to be with him... But I guess these are the obstacles that we have to go through in order to be together.... I think.......... I dunno. I can't even sleep properly now. Every night I roll around in bed, thinking about him, and everything else that comes into mind. Even my head is feeling a bit dizzy and headache-y now. I don't know what's wrong with me... :/
Sometimes, it feels like I'm the one with no like, spamming him with texts and he never really spams me... Like the most texts that he's ever sent/spammed me with was like 10 probably. Whenever we talk on the phone at night, he's always too tired or sleepy to talk cos he's got work early in the morning the next day, so we eventually only talk for a short time. When we talk, it's pretty much full of nothing..... I don't even know what we talk about...
It feels so meaningless.
I still love him heaps. But this distance between us is in a way causing some fights and arguments which isn't what I want... But it just happens.... I don't know whether it's just me or what. Maybe it's cos of the lack of communication this month, but I don't know....
At times I wonder to myself whether this relationship will last if it continues to be like this. I want it to continue but it feels like we hardly talk to each other and it's not longer that fun. I wonder to myself whether this whole thing has become a daily routine. Like, wake up, text "good morning" etc and continue texting and everything else we do.
I feel kinda sad whenever I think about this. But what can I do? I can't tell him. I don't want to have another heart-to-heart talk with him. I feel like I'm the crazy girlfriend who over thinks too much and has so many problems? :/
I can feel that he feels the same way about me, but sometimes, when he does text me or call me, the way he speaks to me, isn't the same as we use to talk. It's more simple and blah. When I look back at the texts that he's sent me from way back, like in 2011 (at this time, May), his texts are so much sweeter and draws me closer to him, and still makes me smile just re-reading them again.
There is a huge difference between last year and this year.......... And it's only been 21 months since we've been together. Not even 2 years yet. I want to be with him... But I guess these are the obstacles that we have to go through in order to be together.... I think.......... I dunno. I can't even sleep properly now. Every night I roll around in bed, thinking about him, and everything else that comes into mind. Even my head is feeling a bit dizzy and headache-y now. I don't know what's wrong with me... :/
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
BF vs BFF
My boyfriend finally found out about the incident of my (male) BFF smacking my butt... Not that I was intentionally supposed to tell him but he asked, and it's so hard to lie to him.
I found out from my BFF that straight after we hung up, he had texted my BFF saying that his behavior is totally unacceptable and that smacking someone's butt is still considered as a form of sexual harassment, that Q does not like it and that next time we will get my parents involved as well as the police.
My BFF didn't think much of it but he doesn't like threats or whatever. He responded to my BF that, "Even if I did sexually harass her, it wouldn't be in front of you." Like oh my God!!! Is he serious?? Why would you say that to a girl's boyfriend?? O_____O
Later on in the night, BFF tells me that he even pulled out the "ex-girlfriend" card on my BF!! Cos apparently my BF said to him that, he hopes his (BFF) girlfriend in the future will get sexually harassed too. So BFF replied saying that he (BF) had 5 girlfriends and they had all dumped him. So he's the one who's getting what comes around goes around. I was SO shocked to hear that!!! Cos I know that having his ex's brought up is like a weakness to my boyfriend.
I feel bad for my boyfriend. Not only was he actually trying to stand up for me and to show that he cares, but he literally got cake mushed in his face :/ poor Honey :( I hope he is OK.
To be honest, BFF doesn't even remember that he smacked my butt!! Like he has no memory of it and said that he hasn't "done anything wrong in a long time" so like, what? Smacking my butt was "fun" and not sexual harassment or something?? Cos it sure didn't feel like it!
In the end, BFF says that he black listed my BF and that now he definitely does NOT want to see my BF at all! They were never really friends in the first place. Especially not after the first time my boyfriend witnessed BFF smacking my butt.... That was when my BF sorta declared war on BFF... He just hates that guy and now I guess BFF hates him too, saying that he's lame, sending him stupid threats and involving police and all.
Seriously though, I do think BFF needs to control his hands/actions!!! I mean I don't see him doing it to other girls, so why the hell is he doing it to me? Yeah well, he never answered that question when I asked... :/ He's actually a very good friend and person, but sometimes he gets a little too comfortable and says pretty sexual or inappropriate stuff and uses his actions too, which is the worst in him. Hope he changes that....
I found out from my BFF that straight after we hung up, he had texted my BFF saying that his behavior is totally unacceptable and that smacking someone's butt is still considered as a form of sexual harassment, that Q does not like it and that next time we will get my parents involved as well as the police.
My BFF didn't think much of it but he doesn't like threats or whatever. He responded to my BF that, "Even if I did sexually harass her, it wouldn't be in front of you." Like oh my God!!! Is he serious?? Why would you say that to a girl's boyfriend?? O_____O
Later on in the night, BFF tells me that he even pulled out the "ex-girlfriend" card on my BF!! Cos apparently my BF said to him that, he hopes his (BFF) girlfriend in the future will get sexually harassed too. So BFF replied saying that he (BF) had 5 girlfriends and they had all dumped him. So he's the one who's getting what comes around goes around. I was SO shocked to hear that!!! Cos I know that having his ex's brought up is like a weakness to my boyfriend.
I feel bad for my boyfriend. Not only was he actually trying to stand up for me and to show that he cares, but he literally got cake mushed in his face :/ poor Honey :( I hope he is OK.
To be honest, BFF doesn't even remember that he smacked my butt!! Like he has no memory of it and said that he hasn't "done anything wrong in a long time" so like, what? Smacking my butt was "fun" and not sexual harassment or something?? Cos it sure didn't feel like it!
In the end, BFF says that he black listed my BF and that now he definitely does NOT want to see my BF at all! They were never really friends in the first place. Especially not after the first time my boyfriend witnessed BFF smacking my butt.... That was when my BF sorta declared war on BFF... He just hates that guy and now I guess BFF hates him too, saying that he's lame, sending him stupid threats and involving police and all.
Seriously though, I do think BFF needs to control his hands/actions!!! I mean I don't see him doing it to other girls, so why the hell is he doing it to me? Yeah well, he never answered that question when I asked... :/ He's actually a very good friend and person, but sometimes he gets a little too comfortable and says pretty sexual or inappropriate stuff and uses his actions too, which is the worst in him. Hope he changes that....
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