From a girl's perspective, if one of your (close) male friend/family member/colleague EVER touched you in an inappropriate way, what would you do and how would you respond?
I know someone who recently has been in that position. Let's call the girl, Juliet and the boy, Peter. So Juliet was attempting to take a photo on the floor of an item, on her knees, bending down with her butt up (not in an inviting way or in an intentional way), and Peter was sitting beside her, as she was about to take the photo Peter unexpectedly smacked Juliet's butt. Not only that, but her parents were around too. Juliet smacked Peter and then moved away from Peter to continue to take the photo.
Juliet felt humiliated and violated, she didn't want to be around him anymore. She went to sleep crying cos she felt that in a way, she had "betrayed" her boyfriend. If she told her boyfriend, she knew that he would go ballistic and would actually go over to Peter's house and "destroy" him for touching his girlfriend's butt. She wanted to tell him, but wanted to keep the peace between the both of them. She 'hated' Peter for doing that but he was also one of her good(?) friends.
I don't understand it. Especially when a girl clearly has a boyfriend, why the hell would a guy friend still attempt to do such thing?? Although both guys aren't exactly what you call "friends" but still, doesn't mean the guy friend can do that. He can't treat her like she's his girlfriend just cos he likes her but she's taken.
This irritates me. I hate men who take advantage of having a close female friend in a sexual way. Especially when she did not ask for it!!! Guys just really need to control themselves!!! ARGGH!!!
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