Monday, April 30, 2012

Age Gap

I got asked today about whether, I have thought about breaking up or ending my relationship with my cute little chub chub because of our age gap and our different set of interests. I was like *GASP!!!* Of course I never thought about breaking up with him or ending it with him!!! I love him to death!!!


The person who asked me then said, "Well, he's quite old and like when you guys move in and you want to go out and party, he'd be like 'Na. Don't go out and spend time with me instead' or that he has to sleep early cos of work, leaving me all alone while he sleeps. But to me, that doesn't matter because I know we will both work things out and he isn't that stubborn (unlike me haha). He's very understanding although he does like to set out a few rules and boundaries. It's not like I mind. 


It's better that he has his own thoughts and opinions rather than always having to listen to mine or whatever. We're both equal in our relationship. It's like, if either of us has a point, then we listen to it or follow it, if one of us doesn't have a point, then we obviously choose to ignore and do it our own way. 


Yeah we have arguments and all like most couples do, but we have made a promise to not allow any of our arguments and all for more than 24 hours as we both want to start fresh. PLUS, he's always the one to come and apologize first. So what have I go to complain about? He's just so damn sweet and adorable like that. He's so forgiving and has such a big heart. So why would I even think about ending things with such a sweet guy? 


Just because he's 6 years my senior, doesn't mean that there will be anything that will come between us, socially or whatever else other may think of. Our love is strong enough to go through anything that intends to pull us apart or any tests that we may have to face in the future. I love him for who he is, and I know he loves me for who I am. So why should I think about such absurd things? I don't want to ever end this amazing relationship that we have built up so far. He means the world to me :')

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